Thursday, June 7, 2012

Are you a Nonconformist or an Independent Thinker?


Independent Thinkers like you are analytical and witty persons. You are self-confident and do not let yourself get worked up by conflicts and criticism. You are very much aware of your own strengths and have no doubts about your abilities. People of your personality type are often very successful in their career as they have both competence and purposefulness. Independent Thinkers are excellent strategists; logic, systematics and theoretical considerations are your world. You are eager for knowledge and always endeavor to expand and perfect your knowledge in any area which is interesting for you. Abstract thinking comes naturally to you; scientists and computer specialists are often of this type. Source: http://www.ipersonic.com/type/IT.html

A nonconformist is a totally honest and transparent person who says what they think does what they want. A true nonconformist does what they want to do and not what other people want them to do. Source:  http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=nonconformist

When I was a High School Sophomore, my English Literature teacher assigned a reading of the book "The Illustrated Man" and my life changed forever. Ray Bradbury was such a talented author. His gift as an author was the ability to draw you into a world of "Science Fiction" that captured your mind from the beginning to the end of the book. It was around the same time that I saw the movie "Something Wicked this Way Comes." That movie had a profound affect on my life as a teenager and now as a 40something adult. After watching that (Wicked) movie, I learned that a person’s appearance has nothing to do with what is really going on inside their mind.

1. Be careful what you wish for because you just might get it.
2. Challenge everything. My motto "If you believe that, you'll believe anything." “My life is what I make it.” I've always felt free to be and do what I believe without experiencing feelings of guilt, jealousy, or regret. Living life for yourself is the only way to be yourself.
3. Know and embrace yourself, flaws and all. You'll be less likely to want or need someone to fulfill all your desires and dreams. I can do whatever I put my mind too.
4. True happiness is based on who you are not on where you are, your life circumstances, or the possessions you acquire during your lifetime.
5. Ray Bradbury's movie (Wicked) and book (Illustrated) taught me that tattoos are permanent. At some time in your life you will regret that tattoo of the cat sized black panther on your right thigh, so I've never had any desire to get one to this day.
6. Nothing that happens to you is neither pleasant nor unpleasant. It depends on the way your mind chooses to see it. I learned that after giving birth to my first daughter, S. Childbirth IS painful, but the joy I felt when I held my baby for the first time nullified the pain of 14 hours of labor. In other words childbirth is extremely unpleasant, but holding your baby in your arms for the first time is extremely pleasant. Apparently I chose to see having a baby as a "pleasant" experience, because I did it again regardless of the fact that labor pains are extremely "unpleasant."

To answer my own question – I am definitely a nonconformist. Please feel free to leave your answer to the question (nonconformist or independent thinker) in the comments section below. I am very interested to read your responses.

If by chance you do not know about Ray Bradbury, go immediately to the nearest library to read any one of his 50 books, or order the movie "Moby Dick (1956)" from Amazon. It will be well worth the read and the money. Off you go!

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